An Uninvited Guest

I've missed you guys lots. I think of you often and have many stories to share but very little time to write them. My life is mostly consumed with planning meals, cooking them, and cleaning up the kitchen afterward. Throw in laundry, exercise when the weather permits, and plenty of sleep, and there go all 24 hours in my day.

Here's a story that a normal person would never share, but when you read it perhaps you will understand why I just had to tell it. If you're terribly shocked, my guess is that  you haven't been reading this blog very long....

I'd been anticipating my Sunday morning shower for two reasons. First, due to my severe dry skin, I shower only twice a week in the winter. Oh, how I love standing under the warm water--not too hot!--for as long as I dare, even though I know my skin may hurt for a day or two afterward.

Second, I'd just gotten all my hair cut off on Saturday, and this would be my first time to style it. I was really hoping it would look as good as it did when I'd left the salon.

I'd mistakenly set my clock an hour ahead on my dad's advice, so this week I planned to enjoy a leisurely shower before church.

I let the water run for a good three minutes while I brushed my limbs, back, and stomach with a natural-bristled brush to stimulate circulation and lymphatic drainage. It stings just a bit, but it's very invigorating.

The water was nice and warm when I stepped in, turning my back to the flow and closing my eyes as I sighed, "Ahhhh."

It only took a moment to wet my shorn locks, and then I opened my eyes to reach for the preservative-free shampoo bar, which I keep on the shower ledge outside the door. (I learned the hard way that you can't keep a shampoo bar in the shower, or it will melt away to nothing.)

I wasn't wearing my contacts, but I had no trouble spotting something that didn't belong in the corner of the shower pan, to the right of the door. It was big and brown and... terrifying! Had Ethan still lived at home, I might have mistaken my uninvited shower guest for one of those toy bugs that used to take my breath away for a moment. This water bug, as motionless as a toy, was the length of my thumb, and all too real.

Like the bug, I froze. The only thing that moved was my vocal cords; I started to scream but sort of swallowed the sound even though Allyson was sound asleep on the other side of the house and couldn't possibly have heard me. Maybe I didn't want the giant roach to hear me. In any case, the only sound my throat emitted was a strangled squeak.

My thoughts seemed to tumble over one another in slow motion. What should I do? If I moved, the bug would run. The only thing I had in the shower that might kill this thing was a bottle of neem oil, but if I hesitated even for a moment, the bug would run at me.

The sensible thing to do would have been to step out of the shower, reach back in and turn off the water, dry off, and return with a shoe. But the warm water was so divine, and the bathroom would not have had time to steam up yet, and I couldn't bear the thought of stepping out into the cold with my soaking-wet body. So I made a very foolish decision.

I decided to share the shower with the roach and just try to finish very, very quickly. There was only one problem with that plan. Although you can use a shampoo bar, with its luxurious lather, quite quickly, there's no rushing the process with a conditioner bar. You're supposed to run the bar up and down the strands of your hair, which is surprisingly hard when your hair is super short. Basically I just rubbed it all around my head while I kept my eyes trained on the still motionless roach.

So far, so good. Now all I needed to do was rinse my hair and wash my armpits and nether regions with yet another soap bar. There was no question of shaving the legs today.

I'd just begun the rinsing--carefully, with my eyes open--when the roach started scurrying toward my feet. I yelped out another strangled screech and sprang into action without any conscious thought.

In one motion, I somehow flung open the shower door and leapt over the brass-edged shower pan, landing on the fluffy rug. Meanwhile, the roach ran to the opposite corner, behind where I'd been standing. I don't know who moved faster, but somehow we missed meeting in the middle.

With water spraying through the open door and streaming in soapy rivers down my body, the rug was drenched in seconds. I scarcely noticed the cold as I stared at that bug, statue-still once more, and pondered the best course of action. I really did not want to smash a roach on the wet shower floor when I was only half done washing.

After 30 seconds or so, I flipped over the plastic drain lid, pulled down the shower head from its hook, and blasted that bug toward the gaping hole. It happily scrambled down when it reached the edge, and I slapped the drain cover back in place.

Back under the warm water, I was unable to enjoy the rest of my shower because I couldn't stop mentally replaying a video I'd shown my students last year. Roaches' articulated exoskeletons are incredibly flexible and strong. Did you know they can be compressed to half their height and still run full speed?

That meant that my shower buddy could easily squeeze back through one of those holes in the drain cover any time it wanted to.

My trembling as I slathered neem oil over my wet skin was not just from the cold, therefore. But I finished the process without incident and was soon standing on the waterlogged rug. The only problem I had to deal with was washing that rug, which was dirty anyway.

So it all turned out fine in the end... even my hair.

Photo from that fateful morning--with clothes

For the record, my house is not infested with roaches. Those water bugs live in the creek across the street. The ones who wander in are usually slaughtered by my cat Arwen. A typical Russian Blue, she is an accomplished hunter, so typically all I might encounter is a dismembered leg--or head, eww!!

I may have to rethink my policy of keeping Arwen out of my bathroom.